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Opinion - The elder brother in all of us

Published: March 16, 2009

Many of us, if we are honest, will admit to a feeling of empathy with the elder brother of the prodigal son. Here he is, the dutiful son, working hard year after year, doing all his father asks without complaint. And for what? His renegade brother turns up and is he punished? Not a bit of it. The red carpet is put out, the fatted calf killed and a huge party put on for him. - Sr Redempta Twomey, The Far East

If we feel for the elder son is it because of an unwanted suspicion that under our veneer of goodness lurks a similar pharisaic persona? Little things give us away; our lack of joy, for example when a colleague gets the promotion we felt was our due. The way we smart when others don't appreciate all we do for them. The resentment that rises up when another is the life and soul of the party while we are left slaving in the kitchen. Whinging and whining, even though it is hidden under our "lovely" smile, we shrivel and our hearts turn to stone.

Let us take a good look at the elder son this Lent. All the years he lived with this wonderful father and yet did not know him. Are we, with all our years of "goodness" any better? How well do we know the Father? How well do we know Jesus, the beloved Son who will lead us to him? Can we believe the Father when he tells us, "All that is mine is yours?" Will we believe him today? - Sr Redempta Twomey, The Far East

http://www.columban.org.au/publications/the_far_east/2009/the-far-east-march-2009/reflection-the-scandal-of-grace.html

 

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  1. Against all the traditional interpretation of the ages, (e.g. that of Cardinal Martini, and Raphael and Henri Nouen) I do not see this parable as one of a trilogy of Chapter 15 of Luke, making us believe that God is the forgiving father (as the other two do)! Sadly, in my opinion, it has been wrongly and badly interpreted. There is no concluding verse here, as in the other two parables, that there was "rejoicing in heaven" - in fact I think it is about a very problematic and dysfunctional family situation here on earth. That family needs to get its act together! They need to try dialogue, a bit of common prayer ( perhaps a visit to the synagogue) and also one to their dear long dead mother's grave. Then perhaps there might be time for the party! Just ask yourself, which child is the father most like: the party pooper or the hard worker? I am sorry if this interpretation bothers "pious" ears - but it doesn't for one minute, destroy the nature (forgiving and just) of God. Cheers,
    Vince

  2. Well you certainly get an A for originality Vince. I wonder what the Apostles would have thought of your idea that Christ's Prodigal Son parable was about the need for family dialogue and prayer. I'm sure your interpretation won't "bother" anyone but it will probably amuse many. And St Luke does not say that the mother was dead.

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